What is Parelli?

Taking a look back ...

Say hi to Kari Bowser, 3 Star Parelli Professional! 👋

For Kari, being an instructor means providing unwavering support to her students in achieving their horsemanship goals in a way that is personally meaningful to them. She firmly believes that the connection with horses contributes to personal growth and becoming a better individual. Kari finds immense joy in listening to inspiring stories of challenges conquered and horsemanship dreams realized.

Apart from her teaching endeavors, Kari actively supports Pat in his mission to expand and share the Parelli program. Her desire to help others on their horse journey knows no bounds. She welcomes horse enthusiasts to the eastern townships of Quebec and travels throughout eastern Canada. She also hosts various events at her facility and extends a warm invitation for students to plan an education vacation with their horses, providing an opportunity to stay with her.

It doesn’t take talent, it doesn’t take bravery and it doesn’t take years to get there. It takes heart and desire together with a structured program to follow and access to a teacher who’s willing to share everything they know. Someone who's walked the same path.

I want to share that journey with as many people and as many horses as possible. I hope you'll join me.

My family and I live on a 50 acre horse property in Quebec, Canada where I am so grateful to live out my passion everyday as a horse lover, a Parelli Professional, and most of all, a student of the horse.

Taking a look back ...

A process of mutual transforamtion between humans and horses.

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Educational Material

Audition Files

Online 3.34 MB

Freestyle 3.2 MB

Liberty 2.89 MB

Finesse 3.02 MB

Parelli Campus Info

USA Toll Free: 800-642-3335

General: [email protected]

Savvy Club: [email protected]

Parelli Landing - campus

402 Bens Lake Dr, Johnsonville,

South Carolina 29555

STUDY GUIDE

Parelli Professional’s Promise

RELATIONSHIP FIRST I promise to put my relationship with you, my student, first. Rather than perfecting the task, we will care more about confidence, trust, motivation and willingness… as true horseman do.

FOUR SAVVYS I promise to help you become well-rounded in your savvy both on the ground and riding; to prepare you for success at every level to read your horse, understand his Horsenality and develop your savvy skills On Line, at Liberty, in FreeStyle and Finesse.

NEVER ENDING SELF-IMPROVEMENT I promise to inspire and support your quest for never-ending self-improvement. The Parelli Program will guide you to success and help you measure your progress every step of the way.

Keys to Success:

1. Attitude

2. Knowledge

3. Tools

4. Technique

5. Time

6. Imagination

7. Support

10 Qualities of a Horseman:

1. Heart & Desire

2. Respect

3. Impulsion

4. Flexion

5. Attitude

6. Feel

7. Timing

8. Balance

9. Savvy

10. Experience

The 8 Principles:

1. Horsemanship is natural

2. Don't make or teach assumptions

3. Communication is two or more individuals sharing and understanding an idea

4. Horses and humans have mutual responsibilities

5. The attitude of justice is effective

6. Body language is the universal language

7. Humans teach horses, horses teach humans

8. Principles, purpose, and time are the tools of teaching

Mutual Responsibilities:

For the Human:

1. Don't act like a predator

2. Have an independent seat

3. Think like a horse

4. Use the natural power of focus

For the Horse:

1. Don't act like a prey animal

2. Maintain gait

3. Maintain direction

4. Look where you're going

The Three Laws of Parelli:

1. Put the relationship first

2. Foundation before specialization

3. Make a commitment to never ending self improvement

Four Relationship Killers:

1. Chauvinism

2. Autocratic

3. Anthropomorphic

4. Direct Line Thinking

The Three "R's":

1. Rhythm

2. Relaxation

3. Retreat

Things to Know:

1. Three systems of a horse: Respect, Impulsion, Flexion

2. Four stages of learning: Teaching, Controlling, Reinforcing, Refining

3. Levels of competence: Unconsciously incompetent, Consciously incompetent, Consciously competent, Unconsciously competent

Thirteen Things to be Done with Excellence:

1. Catching

2. Haltering/un-haltering

3. Picking up all 4 feet

4. Saddling

5. Trailer Loading

6. Bridling/Unbridling

7. Mounting/Dismounting

8. Nine Step Back Up

9. Soft Feel at Halt

10. Lateral Flexion

11. Direct Rein

12. Indirect Rein

13. Supporting/Fixed Rein

3 Reasons to Play On-Line:

1. To teach your horse something

2. To teach yourself something

3. To prepare for something

5 Step Lead Change Ladder:

1. Confidence & Relaxation

2. Canter-Walk Transitions

3. Counting 5 Strides

4. Swing Shoulders

5. Serpentines

6 Steps to Collection:

1. Rhythm

2. Relaxation

3. Contact / Connection

4. Schwung / Impulsion

5. Straightness

6. Suppleness

Strategies for Impulsion:

1. Long horses (tendency for more go than whoa) need circles

2. Short horses (tendency for more whoa than go) need straight lines

The Correct Order for Impulsion:

1. Mind

2. Flexion

3. Weight

4. Feet

Rein Positions:

1. Direct

2. Indirect

3. Lateral Flexion

4. Casual

5. Concentrated

6. Supporting

7. Control

8. Suspension

9. Jingle Bell

10. Steady

11. Fixed

12. Partial Disengagement

13. Butterfly

14. Bunny Rabbit

What the Different Horsenalities Need:

1. RBE = Safety, "Focus me"

2. RBI = Comfort, "Be gentle with me"

3. LBI = Incentive, "What's in it for me"

4. LBE = Motivation/Fun, "Play with me"

Beats in a Gait & Weight Distribution:

1. Walk, 4 beats, 60% of weight on FQ

2. Trot, 2 beats, 50% of weight on FQ

3. Canter, 3 beats, 40% of weight on FQ

4. Gallop, 4 beats, 51 - 70% of weight on FQ

5. Back Up, 2 beats, 49 - 30% of weight on FQ

Reasons to Shim:

1. Scapula clearance

2. Muscle atrophy

3. Riders balance point

Consistency vs. Variety:

1. The ratio of 80% to 20% should be applied to everything you do with your horse

2. On Line 80% of the time, Liberty 20%

3. FreeStyle 80% of the time, Finesse 20%

Phases On Line:

1. Porcupine: Hair, Skin, Muscle, Bone (Think: Fly, Mosquito, Blackbird, Eagle)

2. Yo-Yo: Finger/Look, Wrist, Forearm, Arm

3. Circling: Lead, Lift, Swing, Tag (behind Z5)

Phases FreeStyle:

1. Going: Smile, Squeeze, Smooch, Spank (the air, then the hair)

2. Stopping: Quit, Lift, Hold, Bend

3. Turning: Eyes, Bellybutton, Legs, Rein/Stick

The Parelli Formula:

Rapport, Respect, Impulsion, Flexion

"Develop forwards, fix backwards"

Parelli Formula extra: The Rapport is in his heart, the Respect is in his head, the Impulsion is in his emotions, the Flexion is in his body

5 Areas of Confidence:

1. In you as a Leader

2. In Themselves

3. In the Herd / Among other Horses

4. In new Environments

5. As a Learner

Pat Parelli's 45 P's:

Pat Parelli proudly presents his provocative and progressive programs and the proclamation that prior and proper preparation prevents p-poor performance, particularly if polite and passive persistence is practiced in the proper position. This perspective takes patience from process to product, from principle to purpose. The promise that Pat plans to prove is that practice does not make perfect, only perfect practice makes perfect and, isn’t it peculiar how these poor prey animals perceive people as predators prior to practicing the Parelli Program.

Parelli-isms:

  • You should be in charge of the gas and your horse should be in charge of the brakes.

  • Take the time it takes, so that it takes less time.

  • Expect a lot, accept a little, reward often.

  • Release pressure at the slightest try.

  • Green and green equals black and blue.

  • Slow and right beats fast and wrong, but fast and right beats everything.

  • What other people think of me is none of my business.

  • What I think of me is none of my business. (Linda - when you are being overly self-critical)

  • Horses are natural born skeptics, cowards, claustrophobics, and panic-aholics, by nature and in varying degrees.

  • A horse can only move 6 ways - up, down, forward, backward, left, right, and sometimes all at once!

  • If you always do what you've always done, then you'll continue to get what you've always got.

  • Play with the horse that shows up.

  • A horse is like a computer, it won't always do what you want, but it will always do what you tell it to.

  • Be as light as possible and as firm as necessary.

  • Use love, language and leadership in equal doses.

  • Expect obedience, but be ready to correct, not one more than the other.

  • Be effective to be understood, be understood to be effective.

  • Cause the wrong thing to be difficult and allow the right thing to be easy.

  • Don't make or let, instead use cause and allow. Know the difference.

  • Walk a mile or a minute in your horse's horseshoes.

  • Be as gentle as you can but as firm as necessary.

  • When you're firm, don't get mean or mad and when you're gentle,don't act like a sissy.

  • Don't bribe 'em with carrots, don't hit em with a stick. Find the middle of the road.

  • Be an extreme middle of the road-ist.

  • Don't get mad, get even-tempered.

  • If your horse wants to bolt, there's probably a nut loose in the saddle.

  • When in horseville, do as horses do.

  • When he's blinking he's thinking....when he's not, he's hot.

  • Savvy is knowing where to be, when to be, why to be and what to do when you get there, at any given moment and in any situation with a horse.

  • You know you do Parelli when you put the relationship with your horse first, you study in four savvies, you’re involved in never-ending self-improvement.

  • Focus gives you feel. Focus and feel give you timing. Focus, feel and timing give you balance.

  • Horses are made up of their spirit, innate characteristics and learned behavior.

Parelli Core Values:

Put the Relationship First

  • whether with your horse, partner, family, co-workers, customers, vendors, or business partners

  • use open, honest & respectful language (non-violent communication)

Be the Best Me That I Can Be

  • pursue a positive perspective

  • be impeccable with your word

  • be solutionary

  • don’t take things personally

Get it Done, with a Little Fun

(Create Fun with Individuality)

  • celebrate individuality – you are free to be yourself

  • have fun activities outside of work without horses sometimes

Exceed Expectations ‘WOW’ Service

  • whether you are an instructor or in Parelli Support, aim to deliver more than the student or customer expects, everyone is a customer

Embrace Never Ending Self-Improvement

  • for us individually, as a team and a family

  • nurture learning & change

  • embrace imagination & creativity

  • create support & promote opportunities for personal & professional growth

Do More With Less

  • how can we be more efficient & effective

  • work smarter not harder

  • how can we best utilize the resources we have

Be Humble

Truth, Transparency & Trust

Keep it Natural

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Kari Bowser

3-Star Parelli Professional

Develop your Horsemanship through the 4 levels of the Parelli program.

  • Level 1 : 3-4 juin (français)

    Introduction: Sécurité et principes de base

  • Level 1 avancé: 5-6-7 juin (français)

    Sécurité et principes de base

  • Level 2 débutant: July 3-4-5 (bilingue)

    Fun avec les obstacles et

  • Level 2+ avancé: August 6-7-8-9 (bilingue)

    Renforcer les concepts et la compréhension au sol et en selle.

    Préparation aux auditions.

  • Level 3 débutant: August 21-22-23-24 (bilingue)

    Développer un cheval athlétique - les flexions

  • Level 3+ avancé: August 27-28-29-30 (bilingue)

    Évoluer en liberté et en finesse.

Spectateurs toujours bienvenue !

$50/jour.

Vous participerez aux sessions de théorie et de simulation et pourrez poser toutes vos questions durant les pauses.

Cliniques d'obstacles à Horseland

Pour ceux en niveau 2 et plus

12, 13 septembre

Formation Niveau 1 Hiver 2027 - virtuel

Pension ~ Boarding

Try our FREE Discover Parelli Level - your introduction to the Parelli Levels Program

  • 10 Getting Started videos

  • 9 Videos for tips on common horse problems

Lauren Barwick

4-Star Parelli Professional

Canadian Paralympian in Dressage

  • June 19-20-21 Level 4

  • June 22-23-24 Contact

  • Clinic ~ Bridging the Gap I

  • Sep. 2-3-4 Level 4

  • Sep. 5-6-7 Contact

  • Clinic ~ Bridging the Gap I

2022 Canadian Equestrian of the Year

One of Canada’s most decorated Para-Dressage athletes with two Paralympic Games and two World Equestrian Games medals. Also competes in para reining.

I enjoy working with people that want to help their horses last a lifetime because they are using themselves correctly. Creating a balanced horse bio-mechanically. A horse that enjoys and understands its training sessions because we addressed its emotional and mental needs.

Interested in taking a look at saddles?

Contact Kari and earn a 5% discount on the purchase of a saddle or accessories!

Parelli Natural Horsemanship

is the perpetual and progressive habits and skills that are needed by humans and horses to become true partners.

You can become a member for $20/mo. and create a wall for your horse and chart your progress. In the resource section you can search from hundreds of videos and documents.

The 12 Touchstones cover everything you need to become a great horseman.

We study in 4 areas. We call each one a savvy.

There are 2 on the ground and 2 in the saddle.

This shows all the DVDs that were made and are now accessible to all members.

The basic equipment is a halter and 12' lead with a training stick and string.

You'll receive regular emails if you sign up with short videos to keep you learning !

Learn about horse psychology and strategies to develop their emotional and mental fitness.

Learn patterns to help train your horse.

"Kari est une pédagogue extraordinaire, elle partage une finesse dans l’accompagnement de l’apprentissage de la philosophie Parelli. La relation avec mon cheval est en pleine métamorphose, toujours plus de confiance nous relie un à l’autre, grâce aux enseignements de Kari, je vous recommande sans retenue ses formations !!!" Christian

"Lili played with Leo. He was perfect ! She was calm and assertive. I played with Rosie and wow, she has power backup mode! who knew :-) Can't wait to have you back, it inspired us and we were communicating much better today." Jessica

"Nous avons séjourné 3 jours chez Kari afin d’y découvrir la méthode Pat Parelli. Nous avons été enchantées par les enseignements de Kari, sa pédagogie, son savoir-faire et sa volonté de transmettre sa passion. En plus nous avons appréciées le site de Harmony Hills: vraiment superbe. Le tout est à découvrir. Encore Merci pour tout Kari." Marmotte Belette

"I have been boarding my horse at Kari Bowser’s place this summer and it was the best decision I have ever made for my horsemanship. By being at Karis’ place, it allowed me to be merged in the Parelli world as I never experienced it. Kari, with the support of her family, has built a Parelli paradise that allow students to live and feel what Parelli is all about. Workshops, organizing clinics and personal coaching are many ways Kari is helping those who would like to pursue their levels including myself. We need more people like Kari in Quebec to share what Parelli vision is all about. Professional, committed and dedicated to her passion are only a few of her many qualities. She has great communication skills which makes it easy for her to explain the most complex subjects. She has helped me so many times since we first met that my horse and I are forever grateful." Nadine

"I just want to tell you that I really appreciated my Parelli lesson with you last Friday. Since that day, something very special occurred... When I am returning my horse in the field with his friends, he usually goes immediately as I remove the clip from the halter and he doesn't look back to me. But Friday, when I let him in the field after my lesson, he went away from me but after two or three strides, he came back to me and followed me while I was returning to the barn... He stayed near the fence looking at me until I was almost between the barn and the field (I was very surprised so I was taking some little looks at him ...) And this is like this every day now! :-)" Isabelle

"I met Kari when a friend gave me her name because she knew how much I needed help with my new horse. I spent more than a year every day working with various methods to make my horse and I a team. .... finally, this happened at my new teacher’s place. After having known Kari and Parelli this allowed me not just to find how to become a partner with my horse but also allowed me to meet myself as a human. My evolution through her teaching is always increasingly fantastic. Last summer, with Kari, I spent an intensive 8 days of connection with my horse ... now I just came back of another week at her barn. This will become for me a necessary vacation for my horse and I. I am always in deep admiration with her professionalism, her way of sharing her knowledge is unique and it makes us constantly understand our horse, as well as ourselves. Now I can see what a real partnership is thanks to her teaching as well as the Parelli world. I am amazed of what it brought me and Miss Bill and still for all that I have to learn. I become a better person so my horse and I have become a great team." MC

La mission Parelli:

"Venir en aide aux gens du domaine équestre et passionnés de chevaux de partout dans le monde, peu importe d'où ils viennent ou les moyens qu'ils ont et ce qu'ils peuvent se permettre."

Pat Parelli, 1987

The Parelli Mission

"Help horse people anywhere in the world no matter where they live or what they can afford".

Pat Parelli, 1987